Hi,
today i went out with my lvl40 ani and formed a group.. nothing special so far.
The group filled up and with 6 people we thought "what else do we need?"
Since we pulled with Eld blots so far and needed bigger pulls i invited a bard (we had a menta).
The bard came and started to play the manasong... we told him that we have a menta and that he should play endo and pull.
He said "i'm eating right now... but after that... NP"
I was a bit annoyed that he would go for /lfg when he wants to eat something, but since he started to pull i thought that it wasnt worth the argument.
He said that he thinks that Eld pulls are better.. but the group told him that his pulls are better.. we ajusted the camp a bit so the enemys wouldnt lose aggro and run back..
Then the server restart timer came up. Shortly after that he said "AFK Bio... eld pull".. so the eld started to pull.
10 Minutes later i started to wonder if me might had fallen into the toilet.... a while later i just removed him from the party and thoguth to myself "i invite him back when he comes back...". I thought that it wouldnt be fair to the rest to level him while beeing afk, because i thought that he dinged and maybe wants to leech till serverdown. I've seen people go afk after lvlup before, because if they would log they're out, but if they stay they might get some exp.. even if they die and have to release they still earn something.
The moment i kicked him he moved to the side and wrote "wtf?"
He said that he helped his mother.. so i invited him back. I thought that it is a bit weird that someone who plays some good old DAoC is still living with his mother... but whatever... he could've said something and i thougth it was rude to not to so.. but i wanted the bigger pulls.
What now made me more annoyed is that that he didnt start to pull again... he told the Eld to pull and didnt heal or anything.. he just went back afk. I told him to pull... he said "go eld pull... your pulls are better", so i removed him from the party again. Since when do leechers tell the group how to play, right?
Now he started to tell me that i'm a kid for kicking him (yes, someone who is still living with his mother called me a kid.... i couldnt believe it but it happened).
His guildmember (Who was one of the first 2 people i invited) said something to defend him (like i was the one doing him wrong, because i said that i'm annoyed by him) . Since the guild name was german i wrote in german from that point on... but the group seemed to agree with me and he also didnt say anything anymore after that (seems like he wrote with the Bard in GC and told him what we wrote about).
1 Minute before the serverdown the bard gave me a send telling me the following: (i made a screenshot... translated from german)
I will avoid members of "die lettanten" from now on till they explain me why this guild seems to tolerate this behavior (his guildmember supported him if i'm right).
I'm almost 100% sure that this toxic person (i cant get over him living with his mother and calling me a kid...) got banned from games like league of legends before, because he fits my stereotype of a kid that has no friends, no job and seems to think that his status in a onlinegame makes him someone and that it is ok to shittalk on others if he feels like it.
I dont care in what guild you're on mid... you're living with your mother... and even if she's like 90 years old and needs help with her dipers it still doesnt mean that you can tell the group to level your bard. GTFO!
edit: to explain it... i dont mind it if people take care of their elders .. i know some players are 45+ IRL and their mothers are 75+ and need help.. it is the way he responded and acted all the time. If he would've said "sorry.. my mother is old and needs me... i have to afk for a while" then i would've said anything. But the fact that he did try to make others pull to afk over and over and later called me a kid... rly? He even said "i'm in a good mid guild... you are a nobody and are not allowed to say anything against me" makes me think that his guy needs a MASSIVE timeout to rethink his behavior in relation to other members of the community
today i went out with my lvl40 ani and formed a group.. nothing special so far.
The group filled up and with 6 people we thought "what else do we need?"
Since we pulled with Eld blots so far and needed bigger pulls i invited a bard (we had a menta).
The bard came and started to play the manasong... we told him that we have a menta and that he should play endo and pull.
He said "i'm eating right now... but after that... NP"
I was a bit annoyed that he would go for /lfg when he wants to eat something, but since he started to pull i thought that it wasnt worth the argument.
He said that he thinks that Eld pulls are better.. but the group told him that his pulls are better.. we ajusted the camp a bit so the enemys wouldnt lose aggro and run back..
Then the server restart timer came up. Shortly after that he said "AFK Bio... eld pull".. so the eld started to pull.
10 Minutes later i started to wonder if me might had fallen into the toilet.... a while later i just removed him from the party and thoguth to myself "i invite him back when he comes back...". I thought that it wouldnt be fair to the rest to level him while beeing afk, because i thought that he dinged and maybe wants to leech till serverdown. I've seen people go afk after lvlup before, because if they would log they're out, but if they stay they might get some exp.. even if they die and have to release they still earn something.
The moment i kicked him he moved to the side and wrote "wtf?"
He said that he helped his mother.. so i invited him back. I thought that it is a bit weird that someone who plays some good old DAoC is still living with his mother... but whatever... he could've said something and i thougth it was rude to not to so.. but i wanted the bigger pulls.
What now made me more annoyed is that that he didnt start to pull again... he told the Eld to pull and didnt heal or anything.. he just went back afk. I told him to pull... he said "go eld pull... your pulls are better", so i removed him from the party again. Since when do leechers tell the group how to play, right?
Now he started to tell me that i'm a kid for kicking him (yes, someone who is still living with his mother called me a kid.... i couldnt believe it but it happened).
His guildmember (Who was one of the first 2 people i invited) said something to defend him (like i was the one doing him wrong, because i said that i'm annoyed by him) . Since the guild name was german i wrote in german from that point on... but the group seemed to agree with me and he also didnt say anything anymore after that (seems like he wrote with the Bard in GC and told him what we wrote about).
1 Minute before the serverdown the bard gave me a send telling me the following: (i made a screenshot... translated from german)
Ok, now listen to me you little animist kiddo. I helped my mother and was back. I dont know why you're crying now but you will not write something bad about me. I'm part of one of the best mid guilds here and dont have to listen to a "nohand" like you.
I will avoid members of "die lettanten" from now on till they explain me why this guild seems to tolerate this behavior (his guildmember supported him if i'm right).
I'm almost 100% sure that this toxic person (i cant get over him living with his mother and calling me a kid...) got banned from games like league of legends before, because he fits my stereotype of a kid that has no friends, no job and seems to think that his status in a onlinegame makes him someone and that it is ok to shittalk on others if he feels like it.
I dont care in what guild you're on mid... you're living with your mother... and even if she's like 90 years old and needs help with her dipers it still doesnt mean that you can tell the group to level your bard. GTFO!
edit: to explain it... i dont mind it if people take care of their elders .. i know some players are 45+ IRL and their mothers are 75+ and need help.. it is the way he responded and acted all the time. If he would've said "sorry.. my mother is old and needs me... i have to afk for a while" then i would've said anything. But the fact that he did try to make others pull to afk over and over and later called me a kid... rly? He even said "i'm in a good mid guild... you are a nobody and are not allowed to say anything against me" makes me think that his guy needs a MASSIVE timeout to rethink his behavior in relation to other members of the community