The best thing you can do is to maintain the attitude you have now and people will flock to play with you overtime. I have no shortage of people asking me to run with them. I always have a group if I want and I believe truly that it is largely in part due to how I treat people.
it’s better to coach in the moment than to be derogatory in the moment.... example:
Scenario: your groups minstrel just insta stunned a det9+stoicism tank when your arms man was nearby close enough to slam.
Negative response: OMG who is this noob why are we running with them etc
Positive Response: I appreciate that you saw the need for the stun, however incase you weren’t aware any tank with det9+stoicism is going to walk right out of your caster stun. It’s ok in an emergency , however we should really let our tanks slam whenever it’s possible for a full duration stun. But again great job recognizing the need for cc.
No b.s. this was a real life scenario and both responses happened. The minstrel quit to guild he was running with to join our guild after we coached and developed him with a positive response. He went on to be hands down the best mincer I have ever played with and he is sadly no longer playing these days: but a great friend was created and a lot was learned. He brought more to the table later because he knew if he was ever wrong that we wouldn’t scold him or make him feel stupid.
So stay who you are and other talented people with the right attitude will flock to you.
Etherbunni / Svekt / ArcticPika
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